Cam,

Almost everyone thinks they or their spouse is the exception to the rule and that the ideas of DBing won't work for them, or they know better.

That may be true. You might be...she might be...
But unless you give DBing a chance...and really try the ideas, you're not going to truly going to know if you're the exception.

Begging, pleading, crying, threatening, cajoling, those...don't work.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet