If a separation/divorce does not have MLC involved in it, would the spouses be acting like this at all?
And if it is MLC, what is it that’s going on with them in the brain? Is it carelessness or they have no control and cant see what’s going on?
I can't speak to your first question because it appears my STBX is involved in an MLC and as you can see we've been separated for 2 years.
What's going on in their brain? Confusion. Conflict form their own thought processes, and total self involvement. They are totally reactive...which means they don't really think. They're barely functional at work.
It's not deliberate.
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