LOL! I can totally identify with what you are going through! After my D I had a massive crush on a guy from my church group. Even though I knew there was no way it was going anywhere, it still was a funny feeling. I felt like a darned awkward teenager again. grin

How much older are we talking? Like 20+ years or more like 10-15? Do you have things in common other than church? If so, then by all means....FLIRT! Getting to know someone in a group setting is much less stressful than one on one especially after you have been through what you have been through.

Have fun! Be yourself, and be open to the possibilities!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!