H and I still live in the same house but I think mystery is what has gotten my H's attention. I started going out more frequently. Sometimes with friends but most of the time by myself. I would just go to a movie so that I was gone for a while. H was assuming that I was going over my parents' house so I had my mom call while I was out and leave a message several times. I bought new more stylish clothes. I would laugh on the phone with friends in front of H. I started mentioning male co-workers more often. It must have driven H batty because he started digging through my stuff when I wasn't home and I know that he has read my journal because he has repeated things back to me that he could only have gotten from there. I basically acted as if I was moving on and looking for a new man.
