When is enough, enough? Or when does the R talk happen?

We have lived apart for 7 months. We talk daily and spend every weekend together. Yet, on Sunday nights. he packs up and returns to his rented room. When he leaves he grabs me close and tight. I always feel like he is waiting for me to say something?

We have great weekends usually. Last night we were at sushi and he was showing me a pic that had come through on his e-mail. I could careless about the pic, and zoomed in on his contact list, and there was OW. He knew I saw it. I went into silent decline. I even went to the bathroom to wipe the tears. He knew what had happened.

This morning and all day he was prince charming.

When does the R talk happen? We dance around it. I feel several things
1)I want him to want to move back home
2)not sure I want him to move back home
3)I feel like I am missing out on "something" while we do this dance.

Any suggestions?


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14