Thanks guys....not sure about the internet dating scene WHG. I sent her a list of all our assets earlier today and asked that she look over and let me know what she wants to do and how to split them. She just came back saying she would look at it tonight or tomorrow and let me know. I actually feel sick having to do this. It is the realisation that this is now the end and there's no going back. I have tried some DBing techniques but to be honest, she is not a normal person in her reactions and it is complicated with her being in a foreign country, so she has the option of moving home which she will do. Nothing works with her.....she would rather pretend I don't exist and we didn't spend 8 yrs together. Once this is done, I honestly don't think I will ever see or speak to her again....very strange to comprehend, but this is how she deals with difficulties.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011