I don't know if this works for anyone else or not... but maybe last week or the week before, I think it was last week, I set up a match.com account. I didn't do it to date or find someone else. I'm in this to save my M.

At the same time I was having an issue with looking ahead and thinking if my W never comes back to our M, will I ever find anyone else? Is there anyone even out there?

So I set the account up. I logged in and did a search. Saw the ridiculous amount of hits that came back. Looked at some. Then deleted the account and have never gone back.

It helped me. Might not help others, but it helped me. It helped me realize that my fears were not based in reality or logical. I strongly suggest deleting the account so you're not tempted or end up back there... I don't think visiting over and over would be a wise or healthy idea. But it did help me that one time.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD