You have every right to, you are still young there are plenty of great women who are in there 30's.
And all of us need to step back for a minute and kick our WW or WAW off their high horse
The fact is............they are not all that...........they may be pretty, funny, smart, all those great qualities........ But they are not M material.
Save me their sob stories about needs not being met........or they met some OM.
A huge part of this problem........is them
Blame yourself.........they blame you........they are not even coming close to owning their 50%.
Seriously..........tell your W to call you in 10 years just so you know how this all worked out for her
And try not to laugh when she ends up in the same precarious position.
And Cam..........you are not a failure. How is it failing if you are the only one trying to save the M?
A lot of people don't try and save their M, A or not.
What you are doing is admirable........A lot of women would respect the he!! out of you for it. Don't be embarrassed. You are fighting for what you want...... I tell everyone about my sitch if they ask..........I don't care.
Those people who get it.......who understand what M is all about........you know what they say
WOW you are going to meet some woman and she is going to fall head over heels for you.
Those people that don't get it, like your W, or those who judge you over this.........are not the type of people you want in your life.
So if this cute account manager............if she asks you
You say " I am fighting for my marriage, for my wife and what I believe in "
If her head is even on half way straight.........she won't look at you as a failure......
Just focus on you, keep working on yourself and good things will happen.
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun
