I think you did exactly the right thing the other night. Your H wants to walk away from the M, but he expects you to drop everything and move mountains to make it to the event? Seriously? IMO, he needs to miss you and be respectful of your time and plans. Sometimes a reaction of anger is not a bad thing.
Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev
I don't understand the WAS feeling single already- not that I don't agree that they do, I just don't get it.
Originally Posted By: In_Shock
It is amazing how they think. Denial Denial Denial.
So true. Add to that justify, justify, justify. They have to work pretty darn hard at it, too. It is amazing how "I'm done" = license to be single. But again, it requires a lot of self convincing to get to this point.
Originally Posted By: In_Shock
I am beginning to believe that WE really are much better off than the WAS. I used to say that but now I'm beginning to believe it. WE are learning. WE are growing. (it sux but it's still growth) THEY are running away toward the 'shiny new whatever'
I really believe we are better off. We ARE growning. We ARE becoming better. I'm afraid our WASs are going in the opposite direction, chasing a vision that's smoke and mirrors.
It is amazing how "I'm done" = license to be single. But again, it requires a lot of self convincing to get to this point.