The whole thing about the WAS feeling single already. I agree. In my situation W just said the words -- I want to break up. To her, she's now free as of those words. Forget the 13 years and the 4 year old son. She doesn't think of the OW as an OW -- I guess just a NEW woman....

It is amazing how they think. Denial Denial Denial. It's SO depressing. ROMB I'm right there sending you good energies my friend. smile

Not sure how we ended up on this fricked up ride, but I've been reflecting ALOT this past week. I am beginning to believe that WE really are much better off than the WAS. I used to say that but now I'm beginning to believe it. WE are learning. WE are growing. (it sux but it's still growth) THEY are running away toward the 'shiny new whatever'

You are in my thoughts. *and u guys really are a good looking couple*

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed