And most importantly, you're not taking a "wimpy" stance. Standing for your M is the most toughest thing anyone can do. When your W runs away then that's wimpy. [/quote}]
I just wanted to second this = MrBond is great anyway smile but this was too good to pass up. Starting over - with no past, just a brand new life yet unwritten. That's EASY. Trying to mend the past, grow, work honestly on keeping love alive and the M strong. THAT is definitely the hardest thing in the world. I can see why so many people give up. I


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed