I'll be watching your thread closely. My H is one of those that appears to have come out of his fog. We never got as far in a separation as lawyers but his change of behavior sounds a lot like what I saw at the beginning. I wouldn't say we're 'fixed' but it appears things are continuing to progress in the right direction.
It's a matter of opinion whether to have a set amount of things you want to see in order to gauge the reality of the MLCers return. Had I done that, H might have failed the test. They come out of the fog is fits and spurts and have regressions. Things often take a lot longer that you hope and things often don't go the way you'd like, but it doesn't mean progress isn't happening. Judging the whole picture is how I've handled it. It's been a slow process and my H is, to some extent, still struggling, but overall progress continues and that's all I can hope for. Feel free to read up on my thread.
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
