Originally Posted By: Snowman
I would like to help her with it but she he shut me out so tho speak and I have been doing the LRT so I have not be initiating contact.


The bad news is you can't help her with this.

She must decide to do it herself.

Crazy people don't think they are crazy.

I use a broad stroke there in defining "crazy"

Another way of saying it is she doesn't think she is part of the problem.

Or at least enough of the problem to surrender to owning it and commiting to work on it herself.

Until she does, you'll find her not having much empathy for you or her taking much responsibility for the demise and repair of your M.

The weak man is the one who doesn't recognize this and tries to control her.

That man will lose the battle of saving his M and lose himself.

Get busy on what YOU control.

You have some choices to make.

What are you prepared to do for your M if you are not guaranteed it can be saved?

What kind of man do you aspire to be?

From these questions you can set some goals for yourself.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am