Telemark Your WW needs to hit rock bottom, that may be the only thing that will save her. Because right now especially given her past of EA's, she hasn't learned anything except to avoid, lie and cheat. She refuses to grow, anytime she reaches a rough patch or a crossing point, she chooses neither and just makes her own path.
Who divorced who in her last marriage? That might matter and why did they divorce. And how long was her previous M.
Those answers might tell us where she might be headed.
Man it just seems like a lot sitches are headed nowhere good, I wish it were the opposite.
In the end it doesn't matter how many boundaries you lay down, or how many OM you run and scare off, or who you expose it to, while it may help in ending the A..........it will always be up to them to confront themselves and decide to come back.
Some do decide to return and work on things, some don't b/c it will be too much pain and yes even sometimes the BS has moved on to bigger and better things.
Stay positive
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun
