Another fabulous (insert sarcasm here) weekend with the WAS...
So the night of the event came and he's hammering me to come with him. Told him I couldn't since I had already made plans with my friends. He goes back and forth between understanding one minute and then the next he's mad because 'I don't love him enough to do it'.
Here's the thing- then he wanted me to come over even after I went out with my friends, and we were about 2 hours apart location-wise...so now he's mad that I wouldn't A. ditch my friends altogether or B. drive 2 hours at 1 or 2 in the morning, only to have to drive back to the sitter before 8 am, another 1.5 hour drive.
Of course, I chose option C., none of the above and he will not let me hear the end of it. He also IMd me about 30 times that night, all drunken, abusive (his words even) messages. I didn't take the bait, but I am wiped out after all the back and forth drama. He did apologize for the IMs.
Was option C. the right choice? What is the DB way to respond to this? Since then, we have talked and he is all over the map. He's changed his mind several times about seeing us this weekend, but yet is still making future plans. Told me he missed me, and then hurls some insults a few minutes later. He is unbelievably confused, that much is clear.
Since he was waffling so much on seeing me this weekend I again went ahead and made some tentative plans, and then he decides he wants to get together after all. Honestly, I don't think I want to at this point. I am so exhausted from the drama and I feel like I just need a break.
Hope I'm not screwing things up, but this is really starting to affect my health and I just need to take a step back.
