My bizarre situation

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Hi Lydia,

Welcome to divorcebusting.com! I only have a few minutes, but I want to respond to you.

You definitely have an interesting situation--only YOU can determine what works for you, what you can and can't live with.

So, you've found that you've tried a few things, and have had mixed results, some positive, some not as positive as you want.

What we learn in DB is that it helps to make CLEAR GOALS:

1) action oriented
2) positively stated
3) achievable within 2 weeks
4) things HE will do or you BOTH will be doing together (this is not 'I will do this')


THEN you set the things you want to try, and see if those actions achieve your goals.


So, look at 'goal setting' in your DR book, and list 2-3 goals here. I'll check back in a couple of days.