greenblue,
Thanks, we are trying. My thinking is that I have loved my w since I first met her, the love has been unwavering over the years. While it is true I do not condone, or like what she is doing now, and am very disapointed and hurt, that does not lessen my love for her. I am trying hard to separate the hurt from the friendship. We were friends before we started going out, and I want to go out at least in friendship with my head held high. As almost everyone who has been divorced tells me, this pays dividends in the end, in terms of being able to have a modicum of friendship after the D, if that is the ultimate end.

How are things in your neck of the woods? Thanks for your interest!
Gunny
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m-51
w-45
bomb-6-11
longdistance sep-10-28-11
D?


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!