(I've been talking about it a bit b/c people ask and I usually don't want to - but like my sis, for example, we don't get to talk much otherwise - so I do when I'm over there - though I don't want to). It's not heavy or dramatic (esp. in front of D) but like my friend who is coming Friday - she hasn't known what's going on since summer and I'll probably catch her up a bit while her girls play with D. I'm really still in the process of just telling people. After that though, I want to move on.