W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Mr. Bond

I know I don't like not having control over her actions and I need to let go but her actions do still affect me since we are married. I'm working to let go but it is hard as everyone knows. She continues to use indecisive phrases about being done which just drives me more crazy. If she does want to experience other guys then I'm not willing to wait around for her to do so.

I agree it is not a wimpy stance for my M but I am suffering all the pain and doing all the work while she is cake eating. I will know that I did everything I could to save my marriage despite my W's action.

Journaling,

My MIL got the bad stomach flu and she has diabetes. I got a call at midnight from her new husband that lives far away because the MIL is working on moving. He told me she was very sicking and slurring her speech. He didn't have the MIL kids numbers and so he googled our house phone number. I happened to be on FB and saw W brother on there who told the other brother. He called me to figure out what was going on and how to get someone over there. The youngest brother lived the closest but was not answering the phone. The other brother in Californina called my wife and started to tell some of the story so of course my wife calls me to yell at me asking why I didn't call her and I had literally just barely found out and she had my son as well. I was beside myself that she had the gaul to call me when I getting ready to walk out the door to help her mom who is very sick. She tells me she is going to her moms and that I don't need to go in a hostile voice. My wife though I had some vindictive motive or something which is completely ridiculous. I told her brother about it moments later and he said that that is just f'ed up she would do that. I really don't get how you can call just to yell at me about going to help your mom, she is angry at the world.

They did end up calling the paramedics and taking her to the hospital. I think she had hyperglycemia as her blood sugar was off the charts. I told my wife what she did cut straight to the heart and that I did nothing wrong. She was mad I called her brother but I never did, he called me. She was completely in the wrong and I said she couldn't put this on me. What a joke. Sorry I'm venting but I just don't deserve this treatment at all in this situation. Patience worn thin!