Last night I was at my best friends house celebrating his W bday. His W is my W ex best friend. During the begining of our separation, X best friend tried to give advice to my W about what she was doing. W then accused her of betraying her and called her a horrible person and to go F off.
They havent spoken since. Close to a year now.
So it got to W last night that I was at there home celebrating. My W sends XBF a text telling her that she misses her and thinks about her allot and that she wanted to give her a bday gift.
XBF said WTF??? After almost a year???
XBF texted back saying no thanks... After all the horrible things W said to her???
NO WAY!
W then texted saying that she thought they were best friends and friends don't turn their backs on each other!
XBF then asks me, WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER? IS SHE NUTS?
LOL! I said welcome to my world!
XBF texted back saying, take your own advice. Look what you've done to your H!
W said that XBF has no idea what its like to be in a abusive R for 20 years. Also, she's never been happier in her whole life.
XBF said she couldnt do this. It's just too bizzare! And to think that she doing all this to be with a 25 yr old hood rat.
XBF saw a pic of OM and said , hold on! I know that guy! Apparently, when they to a club one night , W introduced him. ( this was before the separation).
So, I think OM has been around for quite a while.
Now, I see the pattern. Meet OM, separate, have fun, bring him defore the kids, bam! Ask for D.
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach