I really don't mean to be focused on him - but I do think when it comes to this GALing, I feel like it's helping me, and worsening my R with him... which is not my aim, but that just seems to be the effect it's having.
My sister said he can justify that I didn't care about him anyway. Is there a way to GAL and still show him I care, but I'm not like holding my breath or something? Not sure how to find that balance in DBing.
