I agree DG totally. Esp about my friends (which is why I said they love me to death so of course they are going to say stuff like that)... but I guess its always a possibility, just as an OW is. I actually have been pretty good at not analyzing him much anymore, and stop trying to figure out WHY. Its a big waste of my time, and really doesn't help me at all. Then I backslide, when a new thought enters my mind. Gawd, its SO HARD to just turn off the thinking, isn't it? Thanks DG. Always thinking about you... You're a rock - even if you don't think so...
