Back home - but for how long?

[NYCPeter]

Well it's 4:00am.
D9 has woken up 3 different times tonight and I have gone down to tend to her. W is not home again - sure she's withe her divorcee friend in a bar somewhere.

I'll do my best not to say anything in the AM - but how is this fair (I know - what right do I have to expect fairness), I work all week, come home to spend time with family, W works 2 nights a week and doesn't come home until all bars are shut (if she's at a bar) - I'm the one left looking after the girls all weekend because she's too tired and cranky.

I feel like giving up - the lack of respect and caring really gets to me.