Youngster's WAW Still Chooses OM!

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West
 
It's not your job to keep her secret.
 
If OM is so great she should want everyone to know how great and happy her and OM are
 
She is wayward man, nothing out of her mouth will make sense and believe absolutely none of it.
 
Her lashing out about their sex life.......please......give me a break.......what a drama queen.  I wouldn't believe any of it.  It's like the drunk guy at the party bragging about how many girl he get's with when in fact he is still a virgin.
 
 
 
I'll be totally straight forward with u.
 
If you don't expose this......and allow this affair to run it's course.......you will end up divorced.  I'd bet money on it.
 
 
I said it in another thread.......your M can survive her anger, your M will not survive an active A, if you don't do anything about it.
 
 
This has gone on too long.
 
Either D her.
 
Wait for her to D you.
 
Or start exposing to anyone and everyone. 
 
While I agree with a lot of the DB principles...
 
An A is a different ball game.....and it's not for the weak hearted.
 
 
 
Think about this......what have you shown her......
 
You have shown her that if she is boinking OM.....you are going to go dark and stand bye and wait for her to return.
 
 
No woman will respect that.
 
I'm sorry if I am coming off strong.......
 
Nothing is going to happen if you don't do anything.
 
GAL all you want, stay dark, but you need to show your WW that you are strong......and you won't stand for this and that your are the better man and you will fight to your death for her.
 
If you end up D.........years from now your WW will look back and see that you didn't fight for her........you went dark.....stood bye........idle........waiting for her to make a move.
 
 
 
Have you ever picked up a girl...by doing nothing?  No.
 
 
Look OM is a wuss, a pathetic POSOM who can't pick up single women, he has to go after married women.
 
 
Do I need to explain how much better of a choice you are over OM........your WW knows this deep down.
 
She won't end this affair on her own.  You need to help her.
 
 
You can help her by exposing it all at once.
 
 
OH she will be livid........she will threaten divorce and all sorts of crazy things about how she was thinking about coming back to you but now she's not.......it's all an act dude.
 
 
 
You are all ready in LRT mode........you don't have anything to lose.  Either you are going to let this A die out in a couple years.....expecting your totally WW to come to her senses.......or start fighting for what you want.....
 
 
And don't you dare trickle expose this........if we are going to do this......we are going to do it right and I will guide you through it.
 
 
 
Learn from my mistakes.......I trickled exposed.....WW ran all over me and I backed down......when I should of kept on exposing.......
 
 
Look man.....you are young.......you only live once.......and you will only get one shot at this......
 
 
You have to have NO FEAR.
 
Understand POSOM is in Disney land right now.......he gets your wife.....while you sit on the sidelines.........start making his life a living he!!.......make him realize that you are not someone to be messed with, that if this continues you will ruin his life......his career.......everything.......make him believe that carrying this A on w/ your WW is not worth the hassle.
 
I'm telling you.......all OM's are cowards.......as soon as it starts to be more trouble than it's worth.........they bounce onto their next victim.