thanks KD. Figures this weekend is going to be just gorgeous too.. so I guess we have to make the most of it.. What I would do to be up north at a cabin this weekend - actually by myself in a cabin would be even better lol.. Anyways, I know its silly to ask what makes someone a good catch. Obviously different strokes for different folks. Just being his friend is actually the approach I've been taking for the last 6 months or so, and I think thats why things have stayed good between us. So I guess I will keep doing that. Honestly though, I just wish I could get over all of this and just finally move on.. I wish I had that done feeling, as I worry that I will be in this exact same place 2 years from now. I think I feel more lost now than I did a year ago when we decided to separate - for two months (clearly I was naive about that). Sigh.