I understand what you mean about the nonverbal things. We do not see each other at all because when I drop my D off at daycare, he picks her up. So we never see each other.

Well, I did not give him the satisfaction of getting a rise out of me. I replied back with one sentence. I told him that I advise the daycare to let him know what is going on with our daughter so there would not be any miscommuications regarding our daughter. I did not hear from him again.

I do not plan to contact him at all except about our daughter. I will try to be patient and let him contact me if he wants to talk about us.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)