Hmm.. For all you know, there is no OM and she is playing both at the same time while holed up in a McDonald's selling newspapers to underpriviledged readers.
As it was mentioned above, you can't win either way. I think you know that. I think you know she has taken that trip that only Rod Serling might be able to chart.
Keep venting amigo. Keep venting as needed.
Just keep in mind that at some point venting will keep you tied together and you'll have to give that up.
Stay focused on the kids. They need it.
And get some popcorn...gets to be more interesting if I guess correctly...
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."