I was wondering how much time do I give him before I try talking to him about us.
It was in response to this question. I was suggesting you don't bring it up at all. Just be attractive, strong, active, improving, mature. Nonverbal things. Does that make sense? I think - and everybody correct me if I'm wrong here - but this road is a loooong one and it'll be a long time before initiating a relationship discussion is anything but damaging to your cause.
BTW what I said has nothing to do with your communications regarding your daughter. You don't have any choice but to communicate with him about her. I'm just talking about communication about your relationship. Try to ignore his jerkiness. I'm sorry he was that way to you - it's rotten. But he might be trying to get a rise out of you, so you can have an argument and justify what he's doing. Does that sound possible? Best to not react.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
