Another crisis.....but H opening up now

[angel61]

Yes, it was a passionate but not loving period.

I will look for that book Cyrena. Right now, I see my H moving around the end of replay, hanging on by trying to keep contact with OW, but I do have confirmation that she will be gone by the end of November. She posted it in her FB.

H is doing a long, slow withdrawal, and the way I see it, he is trying to make it the least painful he could do so by gradually converting it to a friendship.

I think there was a time before that he was attracted to someone else (did not become an EA) but he was able to succesfully convert that into a friendship (she became a family friend). My feeling is that he is trying to follow that model....

Now that I mentioned it, both this old friend and OW have common characteristics: they are both "princesses". Spoiled, rich, demanding, high maintenance, flaky ....nice looking but not overly pretty (at least not better looking than I although younger) or sexy. Supposedly things that H does not like! Isn't that weird? He said he married me because I am smart, practical, dependable....

Back to the topic at hand: So we will be leaving today for a weekend in the boondocks....he will go hunting, while I and D12 will just find a way to entertain ourselves in the lodge. I guess no internet there, I will miss catching up on everyones' sitches, but have fun, all of you!