She advised that I should push for the divorce before my wife does, in order to protect myself and put precedence on setting custody demands, etc. In the short term (before my wife potentially moves) we should be able to set up a 50:50 schedule, but afterwards, not so much. I will try to keep our son with me 100% based on the fact that my wife's life/hours as a resident doctor will be imbalanced for a growing child (no matter how much help she can get from her family and in-hospital daycare). Once that improves, I will consider working something out with her. The 100% part is something I REALLY not in favor of, because I know a child needs both his mom AND dad. However, in this context, I'm choosing the lesser of two evils, if you may.
Now, the only thing left to do is decide when to actually bite the bullet. I'm saddened by having to do this.
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
As far as recon is concerned, put custody of your son first...
Lord willing it will go relatively smoothly, considering the circumstances. I still don't know how she's going to provide evidence related to child porn, though.
