are you comfortable posting the note here first?

Don't forget that as of now a divorce is still in the works...

so the signals are mixed b/c

either she is confused/wants to know you have changed& she can trust those changes (which confronting her on OM will counter & negate)

or
it's a divorce tactic.

My gut says the first scenario makes more sense.

You have to show her that marriage to you now and from this day forward can be better and different.

how is that being shown to her?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change