you don't have much choice since she tossed the unpinned grenade in your lap
she's going for broke Alamo, so that you'll feel lucky to be able to chase her around and see your son wherever she may go.
Sorry...what does your L say?
As far as recon is concerned, put custody of your son first...
besides, if there really is a chance for a recon down the road
it'll come more from her seeing you as a strong man who brings something to the table other than nanny care for son.
My guess is she hired a new "different" kind of L or one to whom she has given a different version of you...
So sorry
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
