Early in the week, I was emotional about the upcoming anniversary, so I hand wrote the stbx a five page letter on fancy stationary. I reminisced about how we met and some of the good times we've had. I closed by letting her know that I had no regrets marrying her and no matter what happened in the future, my life was richer for having her in it.
I was going to leave it on her car the morning of the anniversary but chickened out. I told her that evening what I had done and she said it would have been really nice and still wanted it. I told her that I had to think about it and wondered if it was a good idea.
She mentioned again in a text yesterday morning that she would still like it and I again told her I would think about it.
I am not sure if I should give it to her or not. I my mind, what I wrote wasn't exactly pursuing... but it could be interpreted by her as pursuing since I talked about the good parts of our past.
I think she's seriously curious and surprised by it, because me writing it was a big 180 for me.
What to do... what to do. LOL
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
