I'm not sure how I would play it. I think you are wise to want to make sure this sitch doesn't come up again in the future.
I am not sure I have any advice on how to proceed. Some type of counseling will probably be helpful, if everyone is open to it.
If any other ideas pop into my head, I'll let you know.
Have a good weekend ma'am!
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012