Hi! I just wanted to comment that I agree with Boundaries vs. Control. This morning I was thinking control isn't a bad thing, but the word I was searching for was Boundaries!
Just because you set up Boundaries, does not mean you're controlling! It's ok to say " Ok stop! This makes my uncomfortable."
Which is what I've done with my stbx, yet it appears as controlling to him. This has always been an issue with us. I did google and yahoo search controlling behaviors, which Ive done in the past. Yes I saw someone....but it wasnt me.
