W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Truegritter,

If she has a psychiatric problem I don't know what to do as she has pretty much shut me out of the communication. I know nothing about it. I would like to help her with it but she he shut me out so tho speak and I have been doing the LRT so I have not be initiating contact.

My control during the relationship was not related to that at the time because I didn't realize she may have those issues but in reflection she has always been a rollercoaster of emotion from anger to depression.

If she does have psychiatric problem then she has a false sense of control in my opinion but she still has control over herself as I can't do anything. I have let her have control of the situation so to speak so I don't know where things are going as I have relequished my control.

I feel that I have no control other than the control over myself which I feel like I'm loosing patience and control while I sit in the dark with no direction as to where this is going.

I really don't know if LRT is helping or hurting. She tells people she is happy but then people tell me she is doesn't look happy and it is all just an act. Her brother just talked to her and asked her the divorce question and she said she is not ready to do that so I guess that is good. I just really am at a lose.

Help!!