The Lies and Deception Killing Me

[abbey1989]

H met with prospective client the other night. Client has a distinctive last name that H recognized from California history, and he mentioned to him this GREAT BOOK that he read about California history as it began in Spain/Mexico. H always talks about this book. It was a gift from OW before she was divorced from her H. I should have realized back then something was going on.

He loaned the book out and he kept saying "I wish I could remember the name of that book. I can find out." Well... sure he can.......OW has a copy of the same book. He knows that I know that she gave him the book so I just give him a blank stare when he raves about it. Back when it was in our bookcase I had a good mind to throw it out!

Anyway, hoping H gets this job. It is in complete other direction from where OW is building her house. Won't be as convenient for him to stop by.

So now I am guessing he occupies his day managing her project (for free) and then I guess working on the bid for this new job. But where he works on that I have no idea. Not in the home office.

I asked H if he wanted to fool around this a.m. and instead he said I'm going to the gym but when I get back. I shouldn't say or offer anything should I?

I like what Kaffe Diem said in a post that I read: "Your best bet is to thought stop, detach and stay out of your emotions regarding your H". Good advice.

On that note...headed to the gym!