don't forget that's it's only days away now, before you end THIS part of the process and begin the phase of HER having no obstacle (ie you) preventing her from being soooo happy FINALLY b/c you won't be holding her back! Yes I'm rolling my eyes...
IF there is going to be another chapter for you two, THAT'S when it will start...NOT before
And I think she's probably freaking out these days too b/c she knows the date is approaching...I am not picking up vibes of her having 2nd thoughts IMO, but how she is perceived.
And what she can get.
But I can't imagine anyone not having any 2nd thoughts for a minute here and there as the day approaches.
Heck, my wedding day I had some second thoughts a few times, for a few minutes at a time. It's natural before any seemingly irreversible course of action happens. But this is NOT irreversible!
So stop waiting for her to wake up any time soon. The signs are not there for a turn around soon BUT b/c she's sooo NOT Indifferent there might be hope down the road after the dust settles.
But Tad I am warning you here and now so please heed this...
ANY recon between you two that happens within 90 days of NOW, will fail. (I also think the odd are very tiny, but am saying "even IF"....NO too soon!!)
So don't even bother putting two brain cells on that topic.
Save them for the life you are going to create for you and your sons NOW and from this day forward.
What plans have you discussed with the boys for a fun side trip over the holidays?
What GAL activity have you started THIS WEEK? THese are not new ideas or suggestions by any means...Tad, show your sons what to do when they face this. Don't just fume and WAIT for the phone call. What is that teaching THEM?
Come on Tad...iF not GAL now, when? What are you waiting for? Are you waiting til you feel better and feel "more like it'?
That's the problem Tad, the WAY to feel more like it is by doing it.
Give yourself a push Tad...a bigger one.
You are standing still too much. And looking backwards and being
in "Stuckville", population:You... move to the land of Today and Be Here Now
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
