Why is it you think you messed up?!? Seems like you were honest there, don't you think? I don't think that's messed up. I think that's being honest and a man (you stuck up for yourself).
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I do think the way you acted in that conversation was fine--I agree with AJM. But really, you don't even need to go through the conversation in the first place if you just stop giving her access to you.
Thank you. I just felt that maybe I messed up because I obviously p!ssed her off again.
I just finished writing a statement that I will read in court. She is going to be floored. She wants hardball? She's going to get hardball. Not because I want to be mean, but because she is playing dirty. I can play that way too, but was hoping to avoid it.
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It's likely that all she has to do to get her divorce is say "irreconcilable differences", but she wants to kick you on the way out the door and drag YOU through the mud.
Yes. Mostly though because now it is a custody battle. I'm going to fight her tooth and nail.
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YOUR terms? Go dark. Now. Finally block her on Facebook. Stop answering your phone. Let it ring. Let her text till her fingers bleed ;-) Let her blow in the wind. I keep wondering how much more you need to see before you really start to make some boundaries. I don't really see how you have any at all.
You are right Antonia, but you know what? I think I do it because I'm so bent on not p!ssing her off and I keep thinking to myself: "maybe this is the phone call I've been waiting for....."
No updates today. I just wanted to respond to your comments.
We go to court in 1 week.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
