This has been bugging me today... He still makes it a point to let me know that he is "not having an affair". People in our circle have told me how he talks about (flaunts even!) the disgusting things they do (how's that for respect for his girlfriend? lol). I haven't said anything to him since he mis-texted me right after he first left me, but he just won't let it go.

So here's what I am wondering:

Why can't he own this with me?

Is it because he still has "one foot in the door"?

Or is he just trying to make me believe that this whole thing is my fault and he's the innocent party in all this?

Does anyone have any insight?


Me: 28 H:27
M: 9y T: 10y
S4 & S1
Bomb & S: 8.31.11