I should add that I'm working as fast as I can - with this new therapist, on financial stuff (MaleFriend and I had to stop last night b/c I had to get D to bed, just when the going got good about where I can cut/save/ideas, etc.), on marketing, expanding my skill set, boundaries, and I just feel so much more energetic (weaning 7 days now!) and trying to make "progress" with exBF where now I know some of these dynamics more clearly (educating myself) and can probably react to him a little better (guess I should say respond) and maybe work toward friendship and what's best for D. I was inspired by that new guy I talked to (not dating now - please don't get the wrong idea) and how he and his ex work their custody schedule.
I'm also going to check in with the L next week. (I have a call in to her but she's out til Monday)
