I do question if I'm handling it the best I can. I know I'm definitely thinking about my w's feelings and wants.. I'm just not so sure I'm thinking about myself with such TLC.
V:
Likely because you're still dealing with the sitx...hard to look at your WAS in such a "business" context while wrestling with the hopes of reconciling. As the more experienced folks mention, there needs to be detachment. But, it's not an easy thing to get too.
You're doing well, though I know it's difficult to see that being so close to the situation.
Hang in there!
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11