On what seems only the most rare occasions, confrontation can turn things around...
On the statistically inaccurate 99.999% of the other times, it compels the WAS further into the A or deeper under ground...
I don't know it is ever easy, when we wear our love for our spouses on our sleeves or at the top of our minds...
Confronting did nothing for you, so further confronting will likely do the same...
The best advice is to thought stop, detach, and stay out of your emotions regarding your H, at this time...
And last as long as you can... if you can last longer than the A, then your M may have a chance... if you can last as long as you can... then at least you can say you held on as long as you could...
