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Therapy is $40 a session. I'm not sure what you're asking about affording it.


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I'm doing it 2x this week b/c things have been so intense


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(BTW, I'm still amused by your inquiry into how I can afford T


Why is this amusing??? $40 5 times a month is $200. When you are spending more than your income, that's $200 a month you are borrowing from somewhere, that's $200 a month that isn't going to paying your debts, that's $200 a month you can't afford. I'm not questioning its value to you - I'm just saying that it may be a luxury you can't afford.

And what kind of paper does BF want you to sign, exactly, before he gives you the $4k? I would be very wary of signing anything without a lawyer's advice.

And frankly, I doubt the written agreements you have now are worth the paper they are written on, from a strictly legal standpoint. I know you keep stalling on getting official child support and visitation done because you think you will get more money from ExBF if you stick to this informal arrangement - but I have to tell you, it makes me very nervous, because you have no legal protection right now.