Rick, you are dead on with the confusion of the WAS. I just had a conversation with the H- wow. He implied he wanted me to go on the outing after all, and became extremely upset/jealous/snarky when I told him I no longer could go. Asked me who I was going out with, and when I told him made a sarcastic 'if that's what you're really doing' comment. WTH?
This is the same guy that 5 days ago said he was going to file??
Anyway, I stayed calm and answered his questions without taking the bait. All I can do.
JB, to your point, its so strange how whenever I GAL it drives him nuts! Especially if he doesn't know who with. Today he seemed totally ticked off. I just can not figure him out. Does he really think I'm going to sit home and do nothing while he does whatever he wants?