Back home - but for how long?

[NYCPeter]

Thank you for the thoughtful responses - I feel so immature and inexperienced to the wisdom I receive on this board.

I like the idea of writing things down and rationalizing them.

GK - I believe I still am in major disbelief that I am in the middle of all this.

I'd get good signals and positive vibes and then it would be back to her doing disrespectful things as soon as I thought we could possibly be getting somewhere. One step forward, two steps back. I'd go berserk when she regressed, because of that.

This describes exactly what is happening. I would love to be calmer about all of this and accept the new reality.

Thanks for all the support - need to figure out some new GAL activities and work on the 180's.