I never opend my ex's mail when we were married. Maybe I was too trusting then but if my name wasn't on it, I didn't open it.
I so agree with Mish. Alot of the "beautiful" people are lacking in character. Looks fade my friend, internal beauty usually grows. I am not a knock out by any means but I will say that the guys that only chased after the hot chicks were never of interest to me. You might want to think about why that matters to you so much.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory