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[mishka422]

I'm so relieved for your D that you were able to have her put into special education. That more individualized approach can only benefit her.

Ok....my own little 2x4 here....did I read that correctly? You were at your XW's house picking up something the girls had left there while she is out of town and SNOOPED through her mail? You don't consider that a major invasion of privacy? How would you feel about her doing the same thing? Before you do anything, shouldn't your though always be "how would I feel on the receiving end of this action?"?

As an example, when XH and I were still M'd, I would always just open all the mail regardless of who's name was on it. It didn't matter, we were married. Now, we are D'd but live together, we have a R, but I would never dream of doing anything other than moving his mail from one counter to another. Never, ever would I look at it if it were open or open it for him. NO WAY. Major invasion.

Some of the most beautiful (externally) people I have ever met have been the most shallow, uncaring, snotty people! They rely on their looks to move them through life and don't have to work at being a worthy human being. Physical attraction is definitely imperative, but it's what is on the inside that melts our hearts and causes love to grow. If that weren't the case there would be a lot of lonely people in the world!