I agree. Cuddling is action. My ex told me that part of our "problem" was the lack of cuddling. Cuddling can be done in other places than bed. Like on the couch while watching TV. Or at the movies. Possibly in a poorly lit restaurant. Mix it up, then maybe this intimacy will lead to more confidence to initiate ML.
Give affection and you'll get it back.
I haven't read much of your posts, just this thread, but hope I helped.
TD
TwinDragon Thread #11-Dragon, flying - evaluating his world.