Turning Over A New Leaf

[25yearsmlc]

Lila, let's not dance around about this.

To be clear, Your question about where you can find "the techniques and 180s in "the other DB book" was very odd If you are reading the DB book AND that's all

IN the book you have claimed to be reading.

I said keep reading. It's clear why I assume you didn't read it-still do

b/c the question you asked revealed a lack of familarity with the basics of the book.

And you said you were reading it back in May or June...

Thus your claim about your sister having read it and being an expert in Dbing...is in conflict with your questions.

Do you still say you don't see how dismissive it sounds about DBing here?

Look at how you handled my comment about my brother's recent death in Afghanistan and how his wife has handled herself since.

I told you that my sil, the widow, has done so much great work, and my younger sister was also widowed (08)& put herself thru nursing school, and how they both inspired me.

I said things about their positive attitudes and how they process their grief and loss, (which you often refer to doing yourself)

and I said I think your judgements about others have been off putting...(they were to me)...b/c you do make sweeping generalizations more often than you realize.

I told you that it "pushed a button" in me and

I owned that but it seems obvious why that would be...YOUR reply?

You insulted me about "the irony" of my being "just like" your ex bf...and then you projected a bunch of stuff on me...what?

You completely ignored my brothers recent death, &

I was speechless.

B/C i then reminded you in a follow up about my brother's DEATH

to give you a chance to regroup and retract, and you said the post was

"too long to read"...(yeah Lila, that's what you said...)

do you see how that comes across?


That's the type of interaction you have to think about too b/c It's infuriating.

I had to wonder, were You too angry to see the comments about his death b/c of the comments you didnt' like, so you filtered out the rest????

Do you do that in real life?

that's all I have right now